Welcome to the memorial page for

Alice "Betsy" (Moyer) Harpley

February 10, 1939 ~ March 20, 2017 (age 78)
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A candle was lit by Mary Jane & Dan Morse on March 24, 2017 3:52 PM
Message from Mary Jane
March 24, 2017 3:56 PM

Mom, I miss you so much it doesn't seem possible you are not here with me. I love you forever and thank you for everytime you were there for me which was everyday. Be happy now with Dad and sing!
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A candle was lit by Alex,Bill and Cindyboo on March 26, 2017 12:08 AM
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A candle was lit by Cindyboo on March 26, 2017 12:12 AM
My Mother was amazing in so many ways. The greatest memories she gave to Bill and Alex and I are the 3 years she rented an apartment in Scottsdale AZ in 2004-2006. She came out to spend the first 3 years of Alex's life with him so he should know how much she loved him and cared. Thank you Mom. We love you and will miss you everyday.
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A candle was lit by Tracey Grady on March 26, 2017 12:56 AM
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A candle was lit by Craig Krell on March 26, 2017 7:54 AM
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A candle was lit by The Breaux Family on March 26, 2017 9:34 AM
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A candle was lit by Alice McLaughlin on March 26, 2017 11:13 AM
March 26, 2017 12:31 PM

Betsy was such an inspiration to and so many in the Newburyport acting community. Her sweet and generous nature will be sorely missed by all. That was a beautiful obituary. Thanks to the writer/s for helping know about Betsy more deeply.
May flights of angels sing her to her rest
Message from Brue and Rae Lajoie
March 26, 2017 12:48 PM

The years have taught me that the legacy of any person does not reside in what the have done or built. It does not reside in the money or "stuff" they are able to leave behind. A persons true legacy is found in their children, and their children's children.

Are they good people? Do the love others and love much and often? Do they have compassion towards others? Do they care for those in need.

We can say that Betsy did well in this department. Everyone of her family that We have been blessed to meet, has seemed to have been given those qualities of goodness, love, care and compassion. She will most certainly be missed, and most certainly live on through her family.

We were blessed to have known her.

Prayers for your family during this time.
Message from Cindy
March 27, 2017 10:48 PM

Mom loved your whole entire family! She always asked who was doing what....she loved that each of you had so much passion about life.
Thank you for always being so gracious to her while she lived out in Arizona, those were precious years .
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A candle was lit by The Ausloos Gamily on March 26, 2017 3:31 PM
Message from Kathleen Weitz
March 26, 2017 5:04 PM

Cynthia, Bill and Alex. She will
Be missed and she was a good mom. She gave it an amazing fight just to stay around with you all longer.
Thinking of you guys and all your family.
⭕️❌love Kathleen
Message from Cindy
March 27, 2017 10:45 PM

Thank you Kathleen, Michael and Jacqueline. Mom talked about the trip she and I took to New York City years ago and had dinner with you when Jacqueline was a baby. She loved life, her family and the theater.
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A candle was lit by Rachel & Julio Calixto on March 26, 2017 8:44 PM
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A candle was lit by Frank and sandy trznadel on March 26, 2017 10:05 PM
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A candle was lit by Cindy Foss ~ XX on March 27, 2017 12:43 AM
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A candle was lit by Aniela (Frattarola) Meinhaldt on March 27, 2017 7:57 AM
Message from Maureen Daley
March 27, 2017 10:41 AM

Betsy was the most amazing stage manager. She was amazing with all the little details that go into organizing any backstage. She was loving, supportive and so kind to everyone.
Message from Virginia Frattarola
March 27, 2017 11:08 AM

Remembering Betsy (and Ted who loved her so deeply), the days in Westford raising our families, and their daughters Cindy, Mary, Sarah, and Barbara (you've grown into lovely women). Borrowing from Meryl Streep (theatre connection, and with daughters of her own): "I think the best role models for women are people who are fruitfully and confidently themselves, who bring light into the world." Betsy was all that and more. Share your precious memories often, laugh, and remember -- it's what your mom would want.
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A candle was lit by Blythe Lipman on March 27, 2017 12:21 PM
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A candle was lit by Ania O'Connor on March 27, 2017 3:34 PM
Message from Ania O'Connor
March 27, 2017 3:39 PM

I'm send healing vibrations to the Harpley Family. I was honored to have Betsy in my massage practice at The Tannery in Newburyport, for several years. She was a wonderful woman. I still have a drawing one of her grandchildren made for me. Thinking of you all....
Ania O'Connor
Message from Sarah
March 28, 2017 7:53 PM

Oh she did enjoy knowing you too and your massage work was such a treat. If you're coming to the celebration the grand "kids" will all be there.
- Sarah, Betsy's daughter
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A candle was lit by John and Donna Parr on March 28, 2017 11:58 PM
Message from Cindy
March 29, 2017 8:58 AM

I enjoyed working with and knowing Betsy when she was involved with the Women's leadership Council at Lahey. She was such a bright light and lovely person. She was so proud of the program she developed with the Oncology department. Everyone who knew Betsy at Lahey loved her. She will be missed by many and serves as a role model to all of us on The Womwn's Leadership Council. Cindy Gruber
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A candle was lit by Kathi Mansell on March 30, 2017 4:43 PM
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A candle was lit by Blythe Lipman on April 5, 2017 1:26 AM
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A candle was lit by Cindy, Bill and Alex. Miss you Mom. on April 5, 2017 12:52 PM
Message from Pat and Jo murphy
April 5, 2017 9:39 PM

Cynthia,Bill and Alex, you will see her again. Our Lord told us "whoever believes in me never dies". Our Lord is merciful and He loves us so much, your Mom is in His arms forever. Love all of you
Message from Peggy Knorr
April 8, 2017 7:02 PM

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Message from Howard Hymes
April 19, 2017 2:39 PM

Thank you Betsy Harpley for your kindness, support and sense of humor - appreciated.

Howard/Jennifer Hymes
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A candle was lit by The Weitz Family on April 20, 2017 7:45 PM
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